Almost 12 great years of marriage and with ambitions to live happily ever after, plan to grow older together with my wife, two sweet kids and a sweet home we bought recently, I didn't realize I would still be prone to something called as "extramarital affair" and become part of a conglomerate which is not able to figure out whether it is a sweet or a bitter thing to live with. I cannot stop myself today and I must share with you all. My wife knows about it and so are my kids but they never heard me confessing about it.
Why to blog about this? It's because "writing" is the best way I can express myself and enables me of multitasking such as shedding tears at the same time, expressing for 5 minutes, stopping and then again start expressing, having nobody to react while I write and million others but the biggest reason is that I am with her right now and she prefers me to write as it somehow makes her feel closer to me so you can say-I am writing for her! You can call me selfish but this is what I am and I probably cannot change myself.
I met her when I joined my current job six and a half years back. Can't remember who introduced her to me as meeting her itself was a sweet experience. What I remember that I met her in a training class, somebody introduced her to me and told lots of things about her which I still remember. After that, I got to see her every day, work with her, sometimes work as a boss, sometimes as an employee but she has been really great to work with. There have been some ups and downs in the relationship but I am 100% sure that we are able to manage the relationship and go with this forever. She has some health problems but don't I too have some? Everybody has some problem or other but that doesn't mean we get rid of the relationship with people with problems. So, I decided to be with her and her health problems and now, I am the only person who takes her for treatment whenever these problems occur. Am I not a good lover? Yes I am, but am I not cheating my wife? Yes again!
Almost 6 years at one job location, have managed to take her to my official trips, to various states in US, to China and during my every visit to India. Yes, my family knows about it but they can't say anything as they know I might be destroyed if I get rid of relationships with her. The same thing happened when I moved to a new job location, I could manage to get her transferred too and now we are together forever.
I think all this was acceptable to me and my family but recently, I seem to have changed a little. I seem to be spending less time with my family and more time with her. I somehow feel happy when I come home and don't see my family around. I first make a call to my wife ensuring what time she plans to return, making sure that it's going to be at least an hour and then guess what ! I am with her again! This time, it gets a little lusty. I like the warmth of her being on my lap and that is the reason we want to sit in that position. Her face is closer to mine, I am able to continuously touch her, feel her and especially her breath which I am still not able to decide whether it is good or bad. My family comes back home and I try to be a nice person well before they arrive, ask her to leave and pretend as it never happened.
Do you think, it just couple of hours in a day? You are wrong. Sometimes, I go late to bed as I am with her. Let me confess that I have taken her to bed also couple of times. Many times, I wake up in the night for a glass of water or due to nature's call, I think about her and sometimes try to check if she is fine. This has become a full time affair with me. I really love when she is with me during official trip. There is no family, nobody to ask questions, nobody to object and I am with her 24 by 7.
I am seeing my kids have started hating me for this. My son knows that dad has another priority in life which he hates but he has to accept her. My daughter, not so grown up, knows about it but doesn't take it very seriously but I feel pity for my wife who knows about it, sometimes complains politely and then pretends that everything is fine. My son has stopped asking me to play with him as he knows I am not going to spend time with him as my preference is HER. My daughter has somehow got used to this and she never plans me as part of her play. I really feel very guilty about it. I think I should get rid of her but let me tell you frankly-I cannot live without her. I might even lose my job as she has lot of influence over my employment.
I am frustrated. I am depressed and so is my family. I really need help from people who have had extramarital affairs but they got out of it very successfully. After posting this, can I expect some comments which would probably help me or at least console me? After today, the whole world will know about my affair and probably would like me to get out of it. Wish me luck and wish me courage to face this. Hope, people who haven't been into an extra marital affair would read and learn from this.
You know, I need to stop right now. She has to wear a patch to keep her healthy. No, no, it is not an anti pregnancy patch or something, it is just some regular medicinal patch which she needs almost every other week. Yes, I need to shut HER down after she gets the patch. This is the way Microsoft works and so are the laptops with Microsoft windows.
What were you thinking folks? It's my LAPTOP COMPUTER! - whom I have my extramarital affair with! Yes, I just cannot live without her, believe it or not!!!!
Why to blog about this? It's because "writing" is the best way I can express myself and enables me of multitasking such as shedding tears at the same time, expressing for 5 minutes, stopping and then again start expressing, having nobody to react while I write and million others but the biggest reason is that I am with her right now and she prefers me to write as it somehow makes her feel closer to me so you can say-I am writing for her! You can call me selfish but this is what I am and I probably cannot change myself.
I met her when I joined my current job six and a half years back. Can't remember who introduced her to me as meeting her itself was a sweet experience. What I remember that I met her in a training class, somebody introduced her to me and told lots of things about her which I still remember. After that, I got to see her every day, work with her, sometimes work as a boss, sometimes as an employee but she has been really great to work with. There have been some ups and downs in the relationship but I am 100% sure that we are able to manage the relationship and go with this forever. She has some health problems but don't I too have some? Everybody has some problem or other but that doesn't mean we get rid of the relationship with people with problems. So, I decided to be with her and her health problems and now, I am the only person who takes her for treatment whenever these problems occur. Am I not a good lover? Yes I am, but am I not cheating my wife? Yes again!
Almost 6 years at one job location, have managed to take her to my official trips, to various states in US, to China and during my every visit to India. Yes, my family knows about it but they can't say anything as they know I might be destroyed if I get rid of relationships with her. The same thing happened when I moved to a new job location, I could manage to get her transferred too and now we are together forever.
I think all this was acceptable to me and my family but recently, I seem to have changed a little. I seem to be spending less time with my family and more time with her. I somehow feel happy when I come home and don't see my family around. I first make a call to my wife ensuring what time she plans to return, making sure that it's going to be at least an hour and then guess what ! I am with her again! This time, it gets a little lusty. I like the warmth of her being on my lap and that is the reason we want to sit in that position. Her face is closer to mine, I am able to continuously touch her, feel her and especially her breath which I am still not able to decide whether it is good or bad. My family comes back home and I try to be a nice person well before they arrive, ask her to leave and pretend as it never happened.
Do you think, it just couple of hours in a day? You are wrong. Sometimes, I go late to bed as I am with her. Let me confess that I have taken her to bed also couple of times. Many times, I wake up in the night for a glass of water or due to nature's call, I think about her and sometimes try to check if she is fine. This has become a full time affair with me. I really love when she is with me during official trip. There is no family, nobody to ask questions, nobody to object and I am with her 24 by 7.
I am seeing my kids have started hating me for this. My son knows that dad has another priority in life which he hates but he has to accept her. My daughter, not so grown up, knows about it but doesn't take it very seriously but I feel pity for my wife who knows about it, sometimes complains politely and then pretends that everything is fine. My son has stopped asking me to play with him as he knows I am not going to spend time with him as my preference is HER. My daughter has somehow got used to this and she never plans me as part of her play. I really feel very guilty about it. I think I should get rid of her but let me tell you frankly-I cannot live without her. I might even lose my job as she has lot of influence over my employment.
I am frustrated. I am depressed and so is my family. I really need help from people who have had extramarital affairs but they got out of it very successfully. After posting this, can I expect some comments which would probably help me or at least console me? After today, the whole world will know about my affair and probably would like me to get out of it. Wish me luck and wish me courage to face this. Hope, people who haven't been into an extra marital affair would read and learn from this.
You know, I need to stop right now. She has to wear a patch to keep her healthy. No, no, it is not an anti pregnancy patch or something, it is just some regular medicinal patch which she needs almost every other week. Yes, I need to shut HER down after she gets the patch. This is the way Microsoft works and so are the laptops with Microsoft windows.
What were you thinking folks? It's my LAPTOP COMPUTER! - whom I have my extramarital affair with! Yes, I just cannot live without her, believe it or not!!!!
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